What to Make of Decisions

We make decisions every day.  Mostly mundane.  Sometimes stressful (oh the amount of hair I have lost over a doozy of a decision!)  But certain decisions, whether mundane or stressful, get lost in the shuffle of life, in the minutes and the hours that we spend distancing ourselves from those nail-biting moments until we forget that we ever made one.  And we forget, too, that certain decisions we made in our past can and will affect our future.  Sometimes we try to forget; other times we had no idea that one would carry more weight than we thought it would.

I decided nearly four-and-a-half years ago to attend a private Christian university in a small town in Indiana.  I left palm trees for corn, an ocean for the plains, a city for a bypass and gravel roads.  I left friends--good friends, the kind of friends you spend more time with than your own family.  I left a church that seemed healthy on the outside, but was beginning to decay.  I left it all to go to a state I had only visited a few times, and to live among people I had never met.  Best decision ever.

I made more friends--great friends, the kind you stand next to when they're saying their weddings vows.  I boycotted church (another good decision) so that I could find God outside of four walls with a steeple.  And I gave my heart to a place that wasn't really home, that didn't belong to me, yet somehow evolved into everything I needed.  

I thought that with the end of college came the close of four of the best years of my life.  Graduation meant good-bye, waving one last time to the crossroads of America.  I knew I would be back, but never quite knew how.  That is, until my parents made the decision to look for a new church.

Their decision has now led them to Joliet, IL, a city southwest of Chicago where, incidentally, the family of one of my dearest friends from college lives.  It is 3 hours away from Indianapolis (where several of my dearest friends from college live).  And it is smack dab in the middle of the Midwest, a place I decided to go to when I was only 18, never knowing that it would lead to this.  Never knowing that I had been preparing myself for where my family may relocate and where I will probably settle for at least a little while.  

Ah, decisions.  How soon I forget that I made you long ago.  How quickly I forget that you are all part of a plan that is bigger than me, one that extends beyond where I am going, yet always forces me to turn around and face where I came from.  I am praying that the church decides to take on my dad.  But I also hope that I take stock of the decisions that I have made, of their impact on my life; that no matter how mundane or stressful, any one of them may lead to something more.